by Brenda Baietto | Sep 9, 2016 | Featured Articles, Morals and Faith Based Practices, Reflection
The will not give up on the marriage is so very important. Even if it is just you for a while, let your spouse know you are not willing to give up and are willing to do what it takes. Stay in the house. Get counseling. Listen…and be ready to look at yourself MORE than...
by Brenda Baietto | Aug 29, 2016 | Featured Articles, Morals and Faith Based Practices, Reflection
Unless we take the time time to listen to our spouses and to act in sacrificial ways even when it is not comfortable or easy, we will not be able to continue to love. Love takes an act of the will (so says St. Thomas Aquinas) which often is not accompanied by warm and...
by Brenda Baietto | Aug 23, 2016 | Morals and Faith Based Practices, Reflection
Yesterday was the Feast of the Queenship of Mary. Per St. Ignatius the only choice we make in our lives is whose army we are going to join – Satan’s army or the Queen Mother’s Army for her Son. I made my choice and consecrated everything I am to Jesus through Mary. It...
by Brenda Baietto | Jun 21, 2016 | Blog, Featured Articles
On many occasions clients approach me with this situation: my spouse and I have been trying to work on our marriage. Things are going south. We have been discussing separating or even divorcing but my spouse’s ideas are crazy. It is clear we cannot work together so I...
by Brenda Baietto | May 25, 2016 | Blog, Featured Articles, Morals and Faith Based Practices, Reflection
Those who are seeking out divorce mediation often fail to realize that the process requires trust in one another – something neither party has. Despite intrinsically knowing this, people still want to mediate. I suspect it is because so many spouses worry about...