The will not give up on the marriage is so very important. Even if it is just you for a while, let your spouse know you are not willing to give up and are willing to do what it takes. Stay in the house. Get counseling. Listen…and be ready to look at yourself MORE than your spouse. That is, it is not all about your spouse. You must see yourself as culpable.

This story is refreshing because it involves a celebrity…Patrick Dempsey, aka Mr. McDreamy. He is 50 years old btw. I like what Mr. Dempsey said…it is real. Read it here.